I had a friend recently teach me a very valuable lesson that I'm sure will stick with me the rest of my life.She was teaching her Young Women's class and started out by giving each girl a lemon drop. She continued on with her object lesson and had them each put a pebble in their shoe.
The girls were then instructed to go and walk up and down the hallway and report back to her in a few minutes.
When the girls entered in the classroom, they were grumbling and complaining about how uncomfortable and terrible it was to have to walk around with such a nuisance in your shoe.
She carefully listened to all the complaints and when the girls were wrapping up their gripe session, she said very quietly, "How was your lemon drop? Did it taste good?"
AHHHH! How many times in life do we focus on the pebble and not the lemon drop? I am so guilty of this and have since made a goal to try and always taste that lemon drop- even if it is hard.
*I thought this would be such a good FHE lesson when the boys get a bit older.